孤单与寂寞

孤单与寂寞

有时候，我真的分不清‘孤单与寂寞’ 。

孤单就是一个人，没有任何人陪伴，
仿佛世界就只有你个人，没有人察觉到你的存在。。。
有人说，一个人是孤单的。。。
有人说，一个人也可以很自由。。。
其实，每个人都有孤单的时候，
一个人可以很自由。。。但久而久之就会变成孤单。

寂寞就是在人群中，但你感到你是一个人而已
就好像没有一个人真的在你身边。。。
寂寞时，要的就是有一个人可以明白你的感受，真正用心伴着你。。。
就只需要一个人。。。已经很足够了。
有时候，我会突然觉得我身在人群中，心却是一个人。。。这就叫寂寞！

孤单与寂寞。。。
谁也不能永远陪谁。。。
当你孤单时，你发现你脑海还有许多人在世界的另一端为你加油打气。。。
你就不会再感到孤单了。。。
当你寂寞时，你想起你心中的感动，你那瞬间的美好回忆。。。。
你就不会再感到寂寞了。。。


孤单与寂寞。。。
本来就是心中那扇门
只要心中那扇门打开了。。。就不会感到孤单与寂寞。。。


愿每个人都为自己打开心中那扇门。。。。

Which month YOU born???

JULY
Difficult to fathom and to be understood
Quiet unless excited or tensed
Has reputation
Easily consoled
Honest
Concern about people's feelings
Friendly
Approachable
Very emotional
Unpredictable and temperamental
Moody and easily hurt
Witty and sarky
Sentimental
Neither forgives nor forgets
Caring and loving
Strong sense of sympathy
Judge people through observations
Loves to be alone
Always broods about the past and the old friends
Likes to be quiet
Waits for friends
Not aggressive unless provoked
Loves to be loved
Easily hurt and takes long to recover
Overly concerned
Puts in effort in work

AUGUST
Loves to joke
Attractive
Suave and caring
Brave and fearless
Firm and has leadership qualities
Knows how to console others
Too generous and egoistic
Takes high pride of oneself
Thirsty for praises
Extraordinary spirit
Easily angered
Angry when provoked
Easily jealous
Observant
Careful and cautious
Thinks quickly
Independent thoughts
Loves to lead and to be led
Loves to dream
Talented in the arts, music and defence
Sensitive but not petty
Poor resistance against illnesses
Learns to relax
Hasty and rushy
Romantic
Loving and caring
Loves to make friends

SEPTEMBER
Suave and compromising
Careful, cautious and organised
Likes to point out people's mistakes
Likes to criticize
Quiet but able to talk well
Calm and cool
Kind and sympathetic
Concerned and detailed
Trustworthy, loyal and honest
Does work well
Sensitive Thinking
Good memory
Clever and knowledgeable
Loves to look for information
Must control oneself when criticising
Able to motivate oneself
Understanding
Secretive
Loves sports, leisure and travelling
Hardly shows emotions
Tends to bottle up feelings
Choosy especially in relationships
Loves wide things
Systematic

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OCTOBER
Loves to chat
Loves those who loves him
Loves to takes things at the centre
Attractive and suave
Inner and physical beauty
Does not lie or pretend
Sympathetic
Treats friends importantly
Always making friends
Easily hurt but recovers easily
Bad tempered
Selfish
Seldom helps unless asked
Daydreamer
Very opinionated
Does not care of what others think
Emotional
Decisive
Strong clairvoyance
Loves to travel, the arts and literature
Soft-spoken, loving and caring
Romantic
Touchy and easily jealous
Concerned
Loves outdoors
Just and fair
Spendthrift and easily influenced
Easily lose confidence

NOVEMBER
Has a lot of ideas
Difficult to fathom
Thinks forward
Unique and brilliant
Extraordinary ideas
Sharp thinking
Fine and strong clairvoyance
Can become good doctors
Careful and cautious
Dynamic in personality
Secretive
Inquisitive
Knows how to dig secrets
Always thinking
Less talkative but amiable
Brave and generous
Patient
Stubborn and hard-hearted
If there is a will, there is a way
Determined
Never give up
Hardly become angry unless provoked
Loves to be alone
Thinks differently from othersS
harp-minded
Motivates oneself
Does not appreciates praises
High-spirited
Well-built and tough
Deep love and emotions
Romantic
Uncertain in relationships
Homely
Hardworking
High abilities
Trustworthy
Honest and keeps secrets
Not able to control emotions
Unpredictable

DECEMBER
Loyal and generous
Patriotic
Active in games and interactions
Impatient and hasty
Ambitious
Influential in organizations
Loves to socialize
Loves praises
Loves attention
Loves to be loved
Honest and trustworthy
Not pretending
Short tempered and egoistic
Takes high pride in oneself
Hates restrictions
Loves to joke
Good sense of humor
Logical

Which month YOU born???

The month you born.....
Reflect you personality

JANUARY
Ambitious and serious
Loves to teach and be taught
Always looking at people's flaws and weaknesses
Likes to criticize
Hardworking and productive
Smart, neat and organised
Sensitive and has deep thoughts
Knows how to make others happy
Quiet unless excited or tensed
Rather reserved
Highly attentive
Resistant to illnesses but prone to colds
Romantic but has difficulties expressing love
Loves children
Loyal
Needs to improve social abilities
Easily jealous

FEBRUARY
Abstract thoughts
Loves reality and abstract
Intelligent and clever
Changing personality
Temperamental
Quiet, shy and humble
Low self esteem
Honest and loyal
Determined to reach goals
Loves freedom
Rebellious when restricted
Loves aggressiveness
Too sensitive and easily hurt
Showing anger easily
Dislike unnecessary things
Loves making friends but rarely shows it
Daring and stubborn
Ambitious
Realising dreams and hopes
Sharp Loves entertainment and leisure
Romantic on the inside not outside
Superstitious and ludicrous
Spendthrift
Learns to show emotions

MARCH
Attractive personality
Affectionate
Shy and reserved
Secretive
Naturally honest, generous and sympathetic
Loves peace and serenity
Sensitive to others
Loves to serve others
Not easily angered
Trustworthy
Appreciative and returns kindness
Observant and assess others
Revengeful
Loves to dream and fantasize
Loves travelling
Loves attention
Hasty decisions in choosing partners
Loves home decors
Musically talented
Loves special things
Moody

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APRIL
Active and dynamic
Decisive and haste but tends to regret
Attractive and affectionate to oneself
Strong mentality
Loves attention
Diplomatic
ConsolingFriendly and solves people's problems
Brave and fearless
Adventurous
Loving and caring
Suave and generous
EmotionalRevengeful
Aggressive
Hasty
Good memory
Motivate oneself and the others
Sickness usually of the head and chest
Easily get too jealous

MAY
Stubborn and hard-hearted
Strong-willed and highly motivated
Sharp thoughts
Easily angered
Attracts others and loves attention
Deep feelings
Beautiful physically and mentally
Firm standpoint
Easily influenced
Needs no motivation
Easily consoled
Systematic (left brain)
Loves to dream
Strong clairvoyance
Understanding
Sickness usually in the ear and neck
Good imagination
Good debating skills
Good physical
Weak breathing
Loves literature and the arts
Loves travelling
Dislike being at home
Restless
Not having many children
Hardworking
High spirited
Spendthrift

JUNE
Thinks far with vision
Easily influenced by kindness
Polite and soft-spoken
Having lots of ideas
Sensitive
Active mind
Hesitating
Tends to delay
Choosy and always wants the best
Temperamental
Funny and humorous
Loves to joke
Good debating skills
Talkative
Daydreamer
Friendly
Knows how to make friends
Abiding
Able to show character
Easily hurt
Prone to getting colds
Loves to dress up
Easily bored
FussySeldom show emotions
Takes time to recover when hurt
Brand conscious
Executive
Stubborn
Those who loves me are enemies, those who hates me are friends

To be Continue.....

People that v met in our life

I like this article... I find it very meaningful...
That is true... that in our life
We meet many peple...
Some can be very nice... Some may make you feel hatred to them!
Your family, your friends, your classmate, your teacher, your boss, your activity partner....
There share... hold different memories with you...
Your beloved may hurt you.... Your family may give you fully support...your friends may disappointed you... your teacher may scold you.... your partner may brighten your day...
All the things will happen... its will keep on continue.... as the world is circle....
There come and here go....

I always ask myself ... what I want most out of my life??? Happiness??
But, how to gain happiness???
Happiness is just simple....
There no need last for long.... Its enough that to stay for some time....
Is the understanding....

Thank you to all the people that in my life...
Because of YOU ALL.... Now I am what "I AM"

For you,

Specially for you,

Here is a story about two teenagers that hold some silly funny memories …..
The language that I am using is…. called Phonetic Notation!!!
You will be the only one in the world who understand such language…..

The stories START……..
Su ta lu per b le kar mi b-er te mu, 2 ar tau 3 da hun dur lu ar gak n-er!!
Tar pi kar mi ler beh me ma harm mi sat tu sa ma la y-in ba ru ba ru yi ni…..
Moon k-in yi ni pang kil FATE.

It continue with…..
Kar mi me bun ya-yi pe sa ma an …. Kar mi mem ha ta pi ma sar la y- ang sar ma…
De li ma kar si ke ra ne ter man sa ya bi la sa ya per la sa shen ti rian…..
Yi gat ke, ki ter b-er du-er ker lu-ar ber sa ma- sa ma!!!
Bun yak pe ka la y-ang ker la kar tan gen bi re ber la gu.


The stories Conclude…..
Ber na – ber na gem pi la ta pat ka wan se per ti mu….
Sar ya der la tar hu ar pe y- ang sar ya mar hu…. Tan sar ya er kan mer nu ju ker im bian sa ya. GaMbADae!!!!


Hope You like this letter….
Huh!! I really finish this tough job, completed the letter.



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